PANIM EL PANIM    —Face to face _________________________________ COMMUNITY ORGANIZING Please join us and consider participating in the work of building our Kol Shofar community and connecting Kol Shofar to the greater community of Marin. By sharing our stories and our hopes, we can become more a part of, and transform our community into, something larger and more meaningful to us all. Next Panim el Panim Meeting Tuesday, February 16 7:00 PM at Davidson Annex, San Rafael From the committee chairman: Our primary agenda item will be to think about how to make the best use of a convergence of three processes which all call for more relational meetings: the very inspiring weekend with Rabbi Lawrence Hoffman; the hiring of strategic planner; and the MOC-lead initiative for another round of house meetings (relational meetings) which came out of its Leadership Meeting last night.  We may also hear updates re: the work of MOC, the development of a new Tkkkun Olam Committee at KS, our joint service projects with WPC, and the evolution of a more relational culture within Kol Shofar. I hope to see you there. Best, Mark Swoiskin panim@kolshofar.org Also, see Coalition Lunch and Emergency Shelter page. What does MOC mean to Congregation Kol Shofar? On Sunday, October 25th almost 100 members of Kol Shofar gathered at San Rafael High with over 1,100 MOC members and local officials to witness and celebrate our Founding with our partner institutions.  We listened to stories about ordinary people – a Marin mom burdened with underinsured ailing parents; a Novato youth facing the deportation of his parents; a disabled teacher at risk of loosing her affordable housing; and a Marin teen realizing how many of her classmates are at risk. We celebrated the progress we have made since our May 2008 launch in that the County has allocated $150,000 to support a rotating shelter program in churches and synagogues throughout Marin this winter.  They have also created and staffed a Homeless Analyst position to coordinate homeless services in Marin and are actively working with MOC and Non-Profit service providers to procure a site for a permanent open shelter. Photos from the Convention by Mindy Pines/ Message Framer Article in the 10/25/09 issue of the Marin IJ And an article in the 10/30/09 issue of the Pacific Sun In the words of our Rabbi Derby, "the corrective to human separateness and isolation is to face the other, to meet another in openness, to share our experience and to be seen with appreciation and acceptance.” Panim el Panim (face to face) is an initiative at Kol Shofar whose goal is to create such opportunities for true “meeting”. In this way, we seek to strengthen our connections with each other and to create a more vibrant and connected community, both at Kol Shofar and in the broader communities in which we live. We encourage congregants to meet one-on-one or in small groups in order to share their stories and hopes for themselves and their communities. As these conversations take place, congregants might identify shared interests and concerns that they wish to explore further. In some instances, this exploration might lead to joint activities or programs that address them. In that sense, the Panim el Panim initiative is part of a national movement of religious, labor, civic, and educational institutions in which these institutions identify community-wide interests and develop actions to bring social change within one’s community. Kol Shofar is a founding member of the Marin Organizing Committee (MOC), the Marin County branch of this national movement, whose goal is to work at a local level toward greater community engagement and social change. This commitment is reflective of Kol Shofar’s vision “to teach, inspire, and pursue the principle of Tikkun Olam, the age-old belief that the Jewish People is a partner with God in addressing society’s ills." What Is The Shelter Initiative? This fall finds us preparing for a wet winter.  We don’t yet have a Permanent Open Shelter in Marin for our homeless neighbors.  Progress has been made, though. The County has responded to Marin Organizing Committee’s research, briefings and actions by:   • Allocating $150,000 to find and develop a site for a permanent shelter. • Facilitating the award of over $600,000 of Federal Stimulus Funds to a collaboration of Marin Homeless Service Providers for programs for Rapid Re-Housing and Homeless Prevention. •  Obtaining a $150,000 grant from the Marin Community Foundation for a Rotating Emergency Shelter to be operated by 14 congregations throughout Marin starting December 1st. • Making Homelessness one of the top 5 priorities for this year. • Creating and staffing a County position for a Homeless Analyst.   While we search for a permanent site, 14 religious institutions and the Marin Interfaith Council have stepped in and offered to provide emergency shelter this winter on a rotating basis. Orientations are scheduled for anyone interested is supporting this program:   • Tuesday, November 3rd, 10:00-11:30AM at Lucas Valley Community Church, 2000 Las Gallinas Avenue, San Rafael, or   •  Wednesday, November 18th, 9:00AM to 1:00PM at San Rafael First United Methodist Church, 9 Ross Valley Drive, San Rafael.   RSVP by email to admin@marinifc.org.   To learn more about MOC, Panim el Panim and Kol Shofar's work on homelessness and other issues you can join us at the next MOC meeting on:   Wednesday, November 4th, 7:00PM to 9:00PM at San Rafael First United Methodist Church.  We will evaluate the convention and strategize about what initiatives and issues we plan to pursue going forward.  Please email Julia Kiely Reich for information at MOC@kolshofar.org. What Is The Mental Health Care Initiative? Many MOC member constituents have expressed concerns about the lack of access to mental health care in Marin County.  In response, MOC constituted a Mental Health Research Team, a subcommittee of the MOC Healthcare Committee, whose first action was to seek additional funding for MAPS (Marin Alliance for Psychiatric Services).  MAPS is a program created to provide psychiatric consultation and medication for clients of four non-profit service agencies in the county who already provide psychotherapy. Specifically, the MOC Mental Health Research Team sought to acquire additional funding for medication visits for needy clients in Marin not eligible for direct services from Marin Mental Health Services (MMHS).   The MOC efforts culminated in a very well attended public action at a meeting of the Marin Mental Health Board (MMHB) in November of 2008. In addition to pursuing increased funding for MAPS, the MOC sought greater transparency of both the mental health budget and the services provided by MMHS. Members of the Marin Mental Health Board received the MOC members and their requests quite seriously. While no public funds were forthcoming from Marin Mental Health Services, the MMHB did appoint a permanent Board member representative to the MOC Healthcare Committee.  In addition, the budget of MMHS was made much more accessible to the general public.  After achieving these successes, the MOC Mental Health Research Team merged back into the MOC Healthcare Committee.   Presently, the greatest concern about mental health services is the cuts in public mental health funding resulting from the State budget crisis. The MOC Healthcare Committee is actively studying these cuts and will involve itself in influencing future decisions about mental health funding in the County. For information on any of the activities on this page, contact Mark Swoiskin by emailing panim@kolshofar.org.    WE'RE ALL CONNECTED Letter to Kol Shofar from Homeward Bound of Marin: July 30, 2009 Dear Rabbi Derby, On behalf of all the residents at our Family Emergency Center, I want to thank you for the energetic team from Congregation Kol Shofar and Westminster Presbyterian Church that turned out to paint the exterior trim of our building. This effort not only improved the look of our center. Such generous service from the community also gives a boost to our residents, who draw motivation from the support demonstrated by volunteers. We have enclosed an expression of thanks created by children at the center, who left their handprints as a testament of their appreciation for your work. We are grateful to have your congregation as our partner, sharing the vision of "opening doors to safety, dignity, hope, and independence" for all. The support of caring people like members of Congregation Kol Shofar plays a critical part in helping our residents pursue a self-sufficient lifestyle through our programs. Thank you again for your commitment to the vision that everyone needs a place to call home and to ending homelessness in our community. Sincerely,  Mary Kay Sweeney  Executive Director  Homeward Bound of Marin With abundant gratitude! We so appreciate your work! Wrap-up: July 12, 2009, Tikkun Olam Project with Westminster Kol Shofar and Westminster Presbyterian Church teamed up to paint the Family Emergency Shelter of Homeward Bound in San Rafael. Please take it upon yourself, in all aspects of synagogue life, to approach people, especially those whom you do not know well, and “meet” them in a way that allows you to make a connection with them. See Rabbi Lavey Derby's comments about Panim el Panim in his Yom Kippur 2008/5769 drash. If you have any questions or suggestions, please feel free to contact Mark Swoiskin at panim@kolshofar.org. GET INVOLVED The following are some of the ways we at Kol Shofar can get to know each other better: For information about these activities or to let us know your ideas of how we can improve these activities to increase connectedness, contact Hagar Ben-Eliezer at 415.388.1818, ext.111 or programs@kolshofar.org. Adult Education classes, which often set aside time for talking to someone you don’t know. FOR MORE INFORMATION.... Chavurot – small groups of people with common interests who share time together outside of the synagogue. Committees – participation on synagogue committees is a great way to connect and also to help keep our congregation going. If you are interested, contact Karen Hirsch, our Vice-President for Operations, board@kolshofar.org. For more information, see our COMMITTEES AND CHAVUROT page. Membership Buddy System – a new way for more established members to help newer people feel comfortable and welcome at Kol Shofar. Office Volunteering  – there’s always need for some extra hands. This is a great way to hang out with other volunteers and also to get to know some of our staff. Parent Activities associated with (youth programming and education) – contact osholin@kolshofar.orgfor more information about ways you can get involved as a parent. Purim Spiel Participation – We follow Jewish tradition in putting on hilarious plays (usually musicals) on Purim. There’s lots of ways for everyone, adults and kids, to participate. Retreat – Almost every year we have a congregational weekend retreat, an educational and social get-together at remote location. Keep an eye for out for announcements. Shabbat Swap – Looking for a Shabbat meal, or do you have an extra seat at your table? Send a note to KSshabbatswap@yahoo.com. Shiva visits – An opportunity to observe the mitzvah of comforting the mourner, and a chance to bond with all those who are taking their time to support someone in need. Shiva services are announced in the (Kol Shofar weekly announcements) and at regular services Services – a core part of Jewish life. Join with others in deepening your spiritual and community connections. After Saturday morning services, be sure to stay around for Kiddush and the all the conversation and socializing. Telling Our Stories – These are gatherings for seniors, with facilitated sharing of personal stories. Tikkun Olam Activities – we have many activities that serve the larger community. It’s a great way to help others, and also to make new friends.  Trips – We often have congregational trips to Israel and other countries. The intensity of traveling together is a wonderful way to make new friendships and deepen old ones.